Nope.

Unshackle is for anyone who wants to heal how they do relationships — whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term commitment.

If you’ve ever said:

• “Why do I keep attracting the same people?”

• “Why do I shut down or overreact?”

• “Why can’t I just feel safe with love?”

Then Unshackle is for you. It is ideal if you want to understand your relational blueprint, patterns and attachment style.

Amazing, you’ll go deeper here.

This isn’t about information. It’s about transformation.

We blend intellectual understanding (the “why”) with nervous system integration and practical tools (the “how”).

If therapy helped you understand, Unshackle helps you unhook the patterns that still play out in love.

Unshackle isn’t about “fixing communication” or “spicing things up”… whilst that will happen as a result.

It’s about healing the root wounds that created your current relationship patterns in the first place.

We focus on the inner child, because until that part of you feels safe, no amount of tactics will work. In fact, you will be able to understand your partner as well.

This isn’t surface work. It’s subconscious reprogramming.

Absolutely! We do include a special bonus Q&A with Shan and her husband to show how this work plays out in real-time.

However, your partner doesn’t need to join for your relationship to shift. As taught in the course, all it takes is one person to shift the dynamic for things to change.

Yes, but not in the way you might expect.

We don’t just give you scripts. We show you why your communication style formed the way it did and how to shift it from the inside out.

You’ll understand your triggers, needs, wounds, and projections so you can express yourself clearly and safely.

Nope and it’s not meant to be.

Unshackle is a self-paced course designed for your healing, not your partner’s.

You don’t need them to join, agree, or participate for your dynamic to shift.

This work focuses on your nervous system, your patterns, your wounds - the real roots of why relationships feel hard or confusing.

And when you change how you show up? Everything around you starts to shift too.

You can do it in your own time, at your own pace, and still see real-time changes in how you relate, love, and lead in your relationship.

Great question. because all three are rooted in inner child work, but serve very different purposes.

Shedding is about healing your wounds. It’s the deep dive into how your inner child was formed, what hurt them, and how that pain still drives your life.

Interrupt is for parents or future parents. It’s about breaking generational cycles, conscious parenting, and reparenting while you raise your kids.

Unshackle?

It’s inner child work specifically for romantic relationships.

This is where we zoom in on:

• Why you shut down, cling, chase, avoid, or self-abandon in love

• Why communication feels impossible when you're triggered

• Why intimacy feels unsafe or like you're never fully seen or chosen

• How to finally feel secure, safe, and fully yourself in love

If relationships are the place where your wounds show up the most…

Unshackle is the one.

No, Unshackle is a self-paced, self-study course.

There’s no 1:1 support included, which is exactly why it's offered at a lower price point than private coaching.

But don’t mistake “self-paced” for “alone.”

The course is designed to feel like I’m right there with you: talking to the parts of you no one else sees, guiding you through the exact steps I use with clients to break their relationship patterns for good.

And if you do want more hands-on support?

You’ll have the option to upgrade into deeper mentorship or private coaching at an exclusive add-on rate.